2011 in review of Eclectic-Me
01 Jan 2012 Leave a Comment
Thank you friends for interacting with me here on my blog. It’s one of my goals this year to add more content this year! The WordPress.com stats helper monkeys prepared a 2011 annual report for this blog.
Here’s an excerpt:
A San Francisco cable car holds 60 people. This blog was viewed about 2,400 times in 2011. If it were a cable car, it would take about 40 trips to carry that many people.
Santa is Real…
24 Dec 2011 Leave a Comment
in Random Ramblings Tags: blood, community, donate, giving, Holiday, Red Cross, Santa, time, Volunteer
Over the years there have been many tales told of Santa Claus. Stories about the magic and wonder that surround the holiday season. The Santa in the stories gives toys and spreads good cheer. He is full of laughter and all things magical.
As a mother of 5 I have answered the question ” Is Santa real?” several times. As my children grow into young ladies, they have all gone through the transition of a childish belief in magic and fairy tales to an understanding of adult-like reality. The reality that magic only happens when we make it happen. So my answer to the question has always been “Yes. Santa is real. YOU are Santa.”
We keep the spirit and magic of Santa a reality by sharing and giving to others. As each year passes and holidays come and go I always look for ways that I can be Santa in my community. By coming up with ways to include our children we teach them to keep the magic alive as well. Just this past week my littlest angel volunteered her time to sort Holiday Cards for Heroes at our local Red Cross. It was such a wonderful thing to watch as she and 12 other volunteers made a difference in the lives of 2000 soldiers as they got the cards ready to send to soldiers who may not be in the most festive of situations this year.
Being a part of a volunteer organization is a great way to be Santa in your community. If there is one thing that I would wish for all my fellow humans it is that each and every one of you find that warm fuzzy, magical feeling, that comes from sharing kindness with others. Try it…you will see it’s as addicting as the spiked egg nog.
Happy Santa Season to you all…may the new year bring you peace and courage to make positive changes in your lives and those lives that surround you.
Pantry Update: Week One
05 Sep 2011 Leave a Comment
Fantastic!
One week later and the pantry system is getting to be habit. Grocery shopping with the hubby today was not painful. It was actually pretty quick. I had the list pre-made from the meal cards this time with a little help from the Middle Angel, so we were in and out in a flash with all of the items for the coming week.
I got a fabulous compliment from the Teen Angel as she helped clean up the kitchen after we ate home made pizza and garden salad. “I love eating at home with my family” she said.
I second that.
Pantry Epiphany update:
28 Aug 2011 Leave a Comment
in Do-it-yourself Tags: Groceries, meal plan, organization, Pantry, savings
I just got back from the grocery store with my meal cards for this week. WOW. It did take me a little bit longer than normal because A. I was getting used to having the cards B. Wal-Mart was packed and C. The ladies in front of me in the checkout line had 100 coupons for deodorant and razors. (What the hell are you going to do with 100 mini deodorants?) I am sorry to all of you out there who are avid “couponers”, but wow, it was super annoying and my frozen/cold foods became thawed/lukewarm foods.
So…off my coupon rant. I was very proud of my purchases for the week. Not only does my pantry look tidy and organized, I bought food for 7 dinners, 7 lunches and 7 breakfasts at an average of $9.00 per meal. Not Per Person…thats for a family of 5 for 5 days and then 7 this weekend! With NO coupons! One trip to the store this week, except perhaps on Friday, I may have to grab another 2 gallons of milk. We have 5 kids…so it goes fast.
I think this is going to work out just perfect!
Pantry Epiphany
28 Aug 2011 Leave a Comment
in Do-it-yourself Tags: Dinner, DIY, family, Grocery list, Meals, organization, Pantry, shopping
Let me introduce you to my pantry. Every week we go through the same thing at our house. Complete disorganization when it comes to dinner has become the norm. I run to the store 3 or 4 times a week to grab something quick or we just end up eating out because the idea of trying to figure out what to have AND cook it is overwhelming.
During one of these crazy runs to the store I had a Pantry Epiphany! What if the pantry was so organized that it told me what we were having for dinner AND it went to the store with a list, and all I had to do was cook. That would be AMAZING! So I decided I would make it happen…and it was so.
Here is my DIY Pantry makeover.
Tools – Hot glue gun and scissors or paper cutter
Stackable Crates – The number of crates will vary depending on how large your pantry is. I bought 7 but ended up using only 6. Each one of my crates holds two days worth of dinner supplies plus one for school lunch foods and one for breakfasts.
Note cards and a card box for unused Meal Cards - Have your family help you come up with about 20 meal ideas. On the front of each card write the main course and side dishes. On the back write the grocery list for that meal. Include anything special you need if from a specific recipe, like spices or flour etc. 
**As as side note you can also add self laminating sheets and a package of dividers for your box of cards if you like. I laminated the cards so they would stay flat and pretty for a long time.
Clothes pins – I bought a package of mini pins in the office supply area at Wal-mart. Use the hot glue gun to attach the pins to the crates. Each crate will have a clip for each set of meal supplies it holds. Mine have 2 each.
Once you have all the supplies and have gotten your meals planned out you are ready to get things organized.
Each week I pick out 9 cards. One dinner for each day of the week and 2 for Saturday and 2 for Sunday. (Lunch and dinner) Take your cards to the grocery store with you and you have a pre-made grocery list. by having a separate crate for breakfast items and school lunch items it’s easy to take a quick look and see if I need cereal or treats and chips.
Here is how it will look when you get it all together.
What If Life Was Fair?
14 Aug 2011 3 Comments
in Random Ramblings Tags: Fair, killer, life, tragedy
If life were fair a 3 year old wouldn’t die at the hands of a killer.
If life were fair he would die for killing her.
If life were fair children wouldn’t lose their mother.
If life were fair he would die for taking her from them.
If life were fair accidents wouldn’t happen.
If life were fair natural disasters wouldn’t kill.
But life’s not fair.
Fair is a place…and tragedy happens there too.
Dedicated to The One I Love
07 Aug 2011 Leave a Comment
in Random Ramblings Tags: accident, ambulance, dump truck, life, love, MVA, paramedic, thankful
Remember that song? “This is Dedicated to The One I Love” Yeah…It’s not really my thing. So how about this one “You Light Up My Life“. Ok crap that’s not right either. I found this one,”Never Take You For Granted” maybe a little closer, but still not right. Where are all the love songs these days? I just want the perfect song to tell my husband how much I appreciate him.
“You and Me” Thanks Dave Matthews! That’s the song I dedicate to the one I love.
Those of you close to us know that The Boy Nigel was in a very bad motor vehicle accident while he was at work on the ambulance. I don’t know how many of you think about the dangers our public servants face every time someone calls 911, I know I think about it a lot more these days. I think about it everyday since July 8, 2011. For those of you who may not have caught this news, you can read about the accident here. Ambulance vs.Dump Truck …I have one thing to say about this. PAY ATTENTION PEOPLE! Lights and sirens are supposed to save lives!
When I got the call that my husband had been in an accident and that he was being airlifted to our local hospital, my heart stopped beating. My whole world stopped right there in that moment. My brain was struggling to comprehend what I was hearing. He goes TO the accident. He’s not supposed to be the victim of an accident. He is the paramedic that saves people in accidents.
Only when I heard the words “he’s alive” did I resume breathing. I am so very thankful that those were the words I heard that day. The last month has been a constant reminder to me just how thankful I am. You see…I had not been thinking about how much I appreciate my husband. I took for granted all the things that he did for me every day.
What has changed? Everything.
He can’t drive, so he can’t run the Teen Angel to work or pick her up at midnight. He can’t go to the bank for me, or take the dogs to the vet. He can’t run to the store or go pick up his daughters for the weekend. He can’t lift heavy things for me or open the pickle jar when the lid is to tight. He can’t walk without a crutch and a knee brace so that takes up the use of his right hand when he is upright. He can’t open or close a door by himself. He can’t tie his shoes. He can’t mow the grass or run the vacuum. He can’t take a load of clothes to the washer. He can’t fold the laundry. He can’t sleep longer than 2 hours at a time because of the pain in his arm, so that means WE can’t sleep. He can’t hug me with 2 arms.
As he gets better and stronger I can assure you that I will never take for granted that he is so helpful to me. That he really is the husband that all the girls dream of. He’s not perfect, but he is perfect to me. Yes…he is domesticated and romantic ladies. Sorry honey, your secret is out.
This accident has changed him as it has changed me. Some things will go back to normal and he will be back behind the wheel, running me around. Other things are changed forever and as he gets better and stronger I will support him in what ever path he chooses to take at this crossroads in our lives. Life is to short to take each other for granted. Appreciate the hugs…that’s the part I miss the most.
** A special thank you to all of our friends and family who have been here during this difficult time. I appreciate you all so much!**
Half a Bucket?
02 Aug 2011 Leave a Comment
in Random Ramblings Tags: 2012, anniversary, Bucket list, end of the world, tattoo
I just realized that 2011 is half over! What if this is it? What if the end of the world happens and “The Raptors” come for real this time?
So I put together my “Bucket List”, more like half a bucket really, of the 10 big things that I want to accomplish before 2012. Here are mine. What are yours?
10. Take my new Jeep Liberty somewhere that I have to use the 4 wheel drive.
9. See The Foo Fighters live in concert.
8. Watch my oldest daughter swear in with the US Air Force.
7. Take a boat ride… to anywhere.
6. Go for a walk with my husband…minus the leg brace and crutch.
5. Go to a fancy party, with fancy people and wear fancy clothes.
4. See my Favorite Band: CAKE
3. Get a special tattoo.
2. Make a “Mac-Scrapbook” of 2011.
1. Celebrate my 4 year wedding anniversary in Chicago with my handsome hubby.
Oh…Hello there.
02 Aug 2011 Leave a Comment
Gosh it’s been a long time since I had time or made time to hop on my blog and check things out or write a post. So many things have been happening in our lives. So just a quick hello to let you know I have a few things up my sleeves. I will be busting out some “stories” for you in the next few days. And that is a commitment to myself and to you…posted here for motivation.
See you soon friends! And that’s a promise.





